Image © by Brian E. Faulkner Heard an interview on NPR the other day with an author who suggests in his new book that “leaders should eat last.” In other words, put your people first and you will rise to greatness on their shoulders.
An atmosphere of trust and cooperation can be set within an organization, claims Simon Sinek, a former adman who has transformed himself into a speaker and writer on inspired leadership, including Start With Why: How great leaders inspire everyone to take action and the book he was touting on NPR, Leaders Eat Last: Why some teams pull together and others don’t.
“Leadership sets the tone,” Sinek said during the interview, by establishing a “circle of safety” in which trust is paramount and people do not get sacrificed in favor of numbers. Ron Kaplan, CEO of Trex, a manufacturer of outdoor decks, reflected recently in Adam Bryant’s Corner Office column in the Sunday Business section of The New York Times about something his combat veteran father told him: “that the No. 1 job of a leader is to make the staff feel secure.”
Sinek concurs in counseling leaders to put people first, much like the Marine Corps general he once observed waiting with his senior officers until their men had been served before joining the tail end of the chow line.
Leadership, like quality, is tough to define. Some say it’s simply the art of getting followers to go where you want them to go. Leadership consultant Dusty Staub once told me that his father, also a military man, defined leadership a bit more abstractly. “Leadership is a simple task,” he said. “It’s a lot like drinking water and whistling at the same time.”
Of course, writing about leadership is one thing. Doing it is quite another. I know that from experience, by having come to grips with my own poor leadership skills and by having worked closely with the presidents and CEOs of very large and very small companies over the years as they applied their leadership skills (or not).
Some of my clients couldn’t be recognized in the lunchroom while others could transform a walk through the plant into old-home week – with handshakes and glad tidings all around. Some clients wanted to lead but didn’t have the self-effacement to do so. Others tried but came across as clumsy and disconnected, even though they often looked the part, direct from central casting.
An atmosphere of trust and cooperation can be set within an organization, claims Simon Sinek, a former adman who has transformed himself into a speaker and writer on inspired leadership, including Start With Why: How great leaders inspire everyone to take action and the book he was touting on NPR, Leaders Eat Last: Why some teams pull together and others don’t.
“Leadership sets the tone,” Sinek said during the interview, by establishing a “circle of safety” in which trust is paramount and people do not get sacrificed in favor of numbers. Ron Kaplan, CEO of Trex, a manufacturer of outdoor decks, reflected recently in Adam Bryant’s Corner Office column in the Sunday Business section of The New York Times about something his combat veteran father told him: “that the No. 1 job of a leader is to make the staff feel secure.”
Sinek concurs in counseling leaders to put people first, much like the Marine Corps general he once observed waiting with his senior officers until their men had been served before joining the tail end of the chow line.
Leadership, like quality, is tough to define. Some say it’s simply the art of getting followers to go where you want them to go. Leadership consultant Dusty Staub once told me that his father, also a military man, defined leadership a bit more abstractly. “Leadership is a simple task,” he said. “It’s a lot like drinking water and whistling at the same time.”
Of course, writing about leadership is one thing. Doing it is quite another. I know that from experience, by having come to grips with my own poor leadership skills and by having worked closely with the presidents and CEOs of very large and very small companies over the years as they applied their leadership skills (or not).
Some of my clients couldn’t be recognized in the lunchroom while others could transform a walk through the plant into old-home week – with handshakes and glad tidings all around. Some clients wanted to lead but didn’t have the self-effacement to do so. Others tried but came across as clumsy and disconnected, even though they often looked the part, direct from central casting.
The Gift of Leadership.
Are the most effective – and most trusted – leaders truly naturals?
My personal observation suggests yes, that leadership is -- in great part -- an inborn quality that cannot readily be learned from reading books or listening to lectures. The best leaders are like the truly gifted athletes you see whose performance has an almost effortless ease about it.
I cite as example one particularly memorable client, who began a company almost quite literally in a closet of a parent firm. His fledgling business grew rapidly and within a few years it had established itself as the national leader in a heretofore undisciplined business category. They had a head start because they created a great brand that solidly addressed their customers’ needs, were excellent marketers and didn’t have to establish their own manufacturing plants. But mostly, they had a superb leader who not only was able to dream big but wrap people into his vision of the future and inspire them to want to help him get there. They were a tight team that worked hard and played hard. They had a common cause. They trusted one another. And truly anything was possible as they forged a path into uncharted territory. When the leader left (given broader responsibility higher up in “corporate”), the thread of trust he’d established dissolved. The new company president was a strong and capable manager (and certainly looked the part), but he did not have the the gift of leadership.
In his radio interview, Sinek mentioned Costco as an example of a company that invests in its people – often at the expense of Wall Street. I know nothing about Costco but can appreciate what he said. Time after time, I have seen senior managers break stride in their efforts to inspire employees because they didn’t "make plan” or because corporate suddenly decided to ship some of their jobs offshore.
“Leadership is an art,” Max De Pree once proclaimed in his powerful little book of the same name, the act of “liberating people to do what is required of them in the most effective and humane way possible.”
The covenant between leaders and their followers that he describes is very Christ-like, a self-sacrificial model of leadership that in these days – any days – is all too uncommon.
TakeAway: True leaders make it possible for others to succeed. Hold onto these rare treasures with everything you’ve got.
Content © by Brian E. Faulkner
Tags: Leaders Eat Last, Simon Sinek, leadership, Ron Kaplan, Trex, Adam Bryant, Corner Office, Dusty Staub, Max De Pree, Leadership is an Art, Costco
My personal observation suggests yes, that leadership is -- in great part -- an inborn quality that cannot readily be learned from reading books or listening to lectures. The best leaders are like the truly gifted athletes you see whose performance has an almost effortless ease about it.
I cite as example one particularly memorable client, who began a company almost quite literally in a closet of a parent firm. His fledgling business grew rapidly and within a few years it had established itself as the national leader in a heretofore undisciplined business category. They had a head start because they created a great brand that solidly addressed their customers’ needs, were excellent marketers and didn’t have to establish their own manufacturing plants. But mostly, they had a superb leader who not only was able to dream big but wrap people into his vision of the future and inspire them to want to help him get there. They were a tight team that worked hard and played hard. They had a common cause. They trusted one another. And truly anything was possible as they forged a path into uncharted territory. When the leader left (given broader responsibility higher up in “corporate”), the thread of trust he’d established dissolved. The new company president was a strong and capable manager (and certainly looked the part), but he did not have the the gift of leadership.
In his radio interview, Sinek mentioned Costco as an example of a company that invests in its people – often at the expense of Wall Street. I know nothing about Costco but can appreciate what he said. Time after time, I have seen senior managers break stride in their efforts to inspire employees because they didn’t "make plan” or because corporate suddenly decided to ship some of their jobs offshore.
“Leadership is an art,” Max De Pree once proclaimed in his powerful little book of the same name, the act of “liberating people to do what is required of them in the most effective and humane way possible.”
The covenant between leaders and their followers that he describes is very Christ-like, a self-sacrificial model of leadership that in these days – any days – is all too uncommon.
TakeAway: True leaders make it possible for others to succeed. Hold onto these rare treasures with everything you’ve got.
Content © by Brian E. Faulkner
Tags: Leaders Eat Last, Simon Sinek, leadership, Ron Kaplan, Trex, Adam Bryant, Corner Office, Dusty Staub, Max De Pree, Leadership is an Art, Costco
About Brian Faulkner.
Brian Faulkner is a Key Message expert. He helps clients come up with words to set their businesses, brands and products apart and attract the customers they want most. His strategic insights, and the words that go with them, have made a significant, often immediate difference for client companies over many years. He thrives on strategic communication problem solving, complex subjects, new ideas, concepts-as-products, challenging marketing situations and demanding deadlines. His "sweet spot" is smaller to moderate sized consumer products, retail, service and manufacturing companies that may have struggled to find just the right words to position their business, brands or products to competitive advantage.
Brian also is a three-time Emmy award winning Public Television writer and narrator of UNC-TV’s popular Our State magazine series, on the air since 2003.
Brian also is a three-time Emmy award winning Public Television writer and narrator of UNC-TV’s popular Our State magazine series, on the air since 2003.
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